Work’s a Circus? We should all be so lucky

For Father’s Day, we took the boys (ages 6 and almost 2!) to see the Cole Bros. Circus.  The show was amazing, and really served to highlight one of the many things I’ve come to appreciate since moving to New Hampshire from Washington, just about 9 years ago. Up here in the Granite State, most things [...]

Baseball, kids and the imagination

So, we’re in the next phase of life now – my son is learning the game of baseball via his first-ever T-ball team.  The league has many of the usual ups and downs – teams that are somehow concocted of the most athletic 5 and 6 year-olds you’ll ever see, driven coaches with crisp, sharp [...]

How to tell when you’re really learning

One of the good things about being back in school is that I have plenty of opportunities to discover new bits of information that I had not been aware of before, which makes me feel enlightened.  One of the bad things is that I have plenty of opportunities to discover new bits of information that [...]

The Wednesday Song

It is Wednesday.  Middle of the week.  By now, work week frustrations are setting in and you’re starting to feel a little bit bonkers, maybe?  I have the lyrics to this song taped up to my wall, and when I’m having One of Those Weeks…..it just fits.  Line after line, there’s a real gem for [...]

Son, you’re making me crazy

All aspects of life have their ups and downs.  Family life, in particular, feels like a roller coaster.   At times, I’m pretty certain my children will drive me right off the rails of that roller coaster.  Our older son (age 6) is an awesome kid.  He’s bright, creative, insightful and sometimes, wise beyond his [...]

Dignity or not? Guts is enough.

Here’s a simple test. Imagine you have just gone in to see the boss, and are told, “You know, I don’t really care to hear any more of your thoughts. This is just the way it is and you’re just going to have to deal with that. Just get over it, I don’t have time to deal with any more of this attitude from you.”

I’m seriously hoping that you’ve had only one response in your mind to that statement. It had better be about 2 words long, and it had better go something like, “ you.” [Read more]

Big Problems, Big Decisions, Big Country

That’s right – some times, you just have to remember that when every hope is gone it’s simply time to move on. If you know you can’t crack management’s obtuse perception, if there’s no room for you on the next rung of the corporate ladder, if your best friend takes advantage of your generosity – whatever it is…..you either grab yourself a Star Wars episode IV-style New Hope, or you just put the right foot in front of the left, and repeat. [Read more]

Management Excellence: The Joker

I’m a fan of Christian Bales, so I was excited to see him win the Oscar for Best Supporting Actor a couple weeks ago for his role in The Fighter. Adding a little extra sentimentality to his award is the fact that my son received a callback for the role of Little Dicky in that [...]

Will a change of scenery fix it?

act of the matter is, unless the environment of the place you’re in is actually causing you problems, like Love Canal, simply changing the scenery won’t help you with your problems.  Taking bad relationships, bad habits, bad ideas and bad behavior into a new environment doesn’t to lessen any of those ills.  Usually, it only serves to poison the environment. [Read more]

Putting a Band Aid on a sense of purpose.

(I return from a month-long hiatus from the blogging!  More on that in an upcoming post.  For now, however, let’s get into the Holiday mood!) The other morning I was in the Holiday spirit and so I turned on the 24×7 all-Christmas station.  I heard the drums, the bells, then the voice of Paul Young singing, [...]