I don’t care what age you are, or gender, or what you’ve accomplished in your lifetime (or not) – you are flawed. There are things about you people don’t like, even if you’re unable to admit that that is true (which is a flaw) or you don’t see yourself the way those people see you (another flaw).
Here’s the truth: you’ve got problems and things you really need to work on, personally and professionally. We all know that’s true, so here the real question: What are you doing about it?
Now, you can’t swallow the whale – not everything about you is ever going to be perfect and so you can’t try to fix them all at once. But for those fixable things that are in need of some fixing – are you working on it? Are you trying to do better?
Improvement is not something you do at your doctor’s office, although he or she might help depending on the problem. It’s not something that you can easily eat or otherwise obtain. It’s about consistent, disciplined effort over time. A year from now, a week from now, ten years from now = are you going to be a better person than you are today?
How are you going to do it?
Define a goal. Define a difficult goal. Identify people who will help to reinforce your change in behavior. Have a plan. Stick to it. But be aware that no amount of planning or determination will make a difference if you aren’t committing to being a better person. You have to actually want something first before you can go forward and achieve it.
The parallel with business becomes obvious, too. When you’re thinking about what your business could be be in five or ten years and then consistently and doggedly and with great discipline stick to that vision of the future, you will find yourself standing in it soon enough. It’s really just that all the distractions that are getting in your way of becoming better. So, don’t commit to dealing with distractions, commit to becoming better – and better you will become.